Updated: Oct 20, 2020
You will never make it….wasting your time….you a nobody…. it has never been done before….…..…you don’t have the experience
….no looking back
There we were sitting back, explaining to them what we have achieved, how we can take the business to the next chapter and then it dawned on us there’s no looking back now.
We found oneself in the act of doing, the late nights, the hard work to keep focusing on quality above all else never realising the milestones or the bridge we had crossed. Whilst, all the adoration keeps coming in all we cared about was being ourselves, just creating and doing….
It’s the price you pay for what you’re going to get. If success was free, everyone would have it.
While working hard on what you believe in, you’re understanding its true value. But earning it with sweat and sacrifices prepares you for that. You begin to respect the work itself, to build some good qualities along the way.
You make your own luck with it.
We are constantly doing, creating something new ways to move forward. It is a universal law, that the more you’re focused on something and take action connected to it, the more doors you open and the more life gives you chances to get closer to your vision.
And it’s the real face of luck.
We may not be strongest, fastest or blessed with the same natural talent as others. Perhaps our technique may be unorthodox. All this notwithstanding, we can still become a champion and out-compete everyone else. How? You ask disbelievingly.
Simple! Well, maybe not all that simple. You have to be willing to do whatever it takes to get there. You must be willing to outwork the competition. You must be willing to do all the little extras that most people don't want to do. You must do the sweaty, uncomfortable things that many try to avoid.
❌Warning❌❌ Challenges ain't fun. But It Will Change Your Life.
All of us experience major and minor life challenges. Sometimes these challenges consume us with guilt. Our problems pressure us from every side, threatening to crush or break us. These challenges enable us to see ourselves at our best and our worst.
So that gives us two options: you can either accept this and move on, allowing your fear of failure to keep you in whatever box you’ve established for yourself. But note, by the time the fear subsides, it will be too late. By the time you're not afraid of what you were planning to start/say/do, someone else will have already done it.
We may attempt to temporarily escape our circumstances, but you cannot run from life…it catches up to you.
Or, you can overcome your fear of failure and live your life free.
So you want to be like us and talk like us?
We can assure you that this is not an impossible task and NOT as far fetched as you might imagine. But it is a "way of being", a hero's journey, an up and down, as you become dedicated to exploring the unlimited boundaries of your full human potential and
the road is very rough.
Are you a flawless warrior: courageous, focused, visionary, modest, passionate and completely selfless, working for the higher good for humanity…..
Fighting for life is scary. This is because it's no longer about you or the company, there over 7.53 billion humans you must compete against
Life is like boxing ….
- Hours in the gym and you think you have done enough.
- But your opponent doesn’t stop and does more.
- You compete, you realise just how good the other side is.
- You compete and you get tired but your opponent does not.
- You compete and are doing great when he suddenly hurts you with a (lucky?...really??!! is he lucky doe) good shot and thereafter a few exchanges, you realize you can’t beat this guy. He’s better than you and will knock you out.
.so Ask more from life even though it has the power to knock you out
- Ask for something small that you are scared to ask before.
Next time you go shopping, ask for a discount on a product that you like but cannot afford. Maybe, maybe you’ll hear a yes – that’d be great! If you hear the opposite though, don’t be scared you are now a strong fighter.
The point here is that you get used to hearing no and when you do, instead of thinking about the negativity of the no, praise yourself for stretching your asking muscles and thinking of the next ask opportunity.
Life is full of many opportunities
- Start making more elaborate asks.
Next time you go to a concert etc, ask security if you can go onto the stage or whatever. If they happen to say yes, ask if you can meet the artist or someone famous…. this might be your only one chance. Don’t let life pass you by.Or, ask your colleague for help on a big project, even if it’s outside them.
The point here is to continue to fight that fear of failure. When you hear no on these bigger asks, never apologize for asking and keeping your outlook positive.
- Step 3: Ask for something you really want (but don’t think you’ll get).
You can ask yourself questions that help you better understand the problem and how it affects you. And this is where you ask for the things you really want. Maybe that means asking your boss for a new responsibility. Or something else you really want but are scared to go after.
Many of us complain to our friends and families about these things, but rarely have the courage to ask for more in life, to make a decision to want to change our destiny.
The answers might be no and that’s okay –you should be able to properly handle that no by now. You can always ask again, and even if the person says no, it puts your mind on the right path.
If you continue with this, eventually you’ll transcend beyond just asking for things from your boss or your boss's boss. If you want to start a business, no longer will fear to be a limiting factor.
When we are tired it doesn’t matter, we are still required to find the strength to consistently prepare because “we are what we consistently commit to doing". We, therefore, require you to be tenacious, fearless, audacious, proud and confident in your abilities, win or lose.
We believe in our passion and in every battle we will always win not because we are the strongest or the smartest, but we have a strong desire to do whatever it takes to get it done.
Thank you so much for visiting.
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